I’m not in ministry yet, but I’m headed in that direction. These are some things I’ve learned on my journey. Also, I haven’t done all this perfectly. Just because I’m recommending that you do these things doesn’t mean that I was a success in these areas. Finally, even if you aren’t planning on going into vocational ministry, these pointers may help you think about how you or your church can help a guy who is!
1. A Personal Walk with God
You can fake your content and your efforts for a while, but over time people will see through the façade. Don’t fool yourself into complacency by resting on the results of your teaching in the lives of others; your personal relationship with God is an entirely different matter.
There are several methods of developing your walk that I found particularly helpful as a man preparing for ministry:
2. Openness and Accountability
Don’t think your theological studies make you superior to your brothers and sisters in Christ. It’s easy to use your training as an excuse for cloistering yourself and avoiding substantive communication with other believers. This subtle form of superiority undermines the openness and accountability that you desperately need. Staying open about your struggles will go a long way in keeping you humble as you move out into ministry. These are a number of ways to foster openness and accountability:
3. Support from a Local Body of Believers
Find a church and pastor that are willing to invest in you and that you’re going to invest in as well. Once you’ve earned the trust of the people and the leadership of the church begin discussing your goals and needs. Plan to invest at least three to five years in this church (this is usually the time that it takes to finish an MDiv). As your gifts become evident in the ministry of this body, they should be willing to take concrete steps to recognize your calling (Acts 13:1).
This may involve taking one or more of the following actions:
The level of the church’s willingness and ability to assist you is normally gauged about halfway through your planned time of ministry in the church.
If a church is unwilling to assist in a concrete way, you need to probe the reasoning behind this. If the church leadership is reluctant to assist in these ways, you need to determine the reasoning of the leadership. If they believe that you are unqualified for ministry, then you must engage in a period of self-evaluation to determine whether vocational ministry is the right place for you. In the rare and unfortunate case that the leadership believes that you are qualified, but they don’t have relationships or resources to assist you, then you need to sit down with the leadership immediately to structure a plan of action.
4. Two-Pronged Preparation
Ministry + Academics. You need both of them.
I know plenty of guys who are great at ministry, and so they put their whole efforts into the work of the ministry without putting much effort into their academic preparation for ministry. This approach lends itself to a man finding ministries that will use and abuse him. Often these guys end up burning themselves out and struggling to feed their congregations. By failing to pursue academic training, these pastors only shortchange themselves and their congregants over time.
I also know other guys who’ve mistakenly placed their sole focus on collecting degrees. Often, this misguided course of action is due to the influence of an academically minded leader in a man’s life. This approach lends itself to a man finding few ministries that are willing to accept him. His grades and studies only go so far in making him a viable candidate for ministry. Failure to gain practical hands-on ministry experience will short-circuit his attempts to enter the ministry.
As you follow the advice of your mentors, be sure not to skew too far towards either of these extremes. Couple your participation in ministry with your preparation for ministry.
5. Personal Development
I can hardly stress this enough. I’ve seen many peers rush into pastoral ministry and end up making stupid mistakes because of their immaturity. Here are four areas of personal development that I think guys should work on/allow to happen before entering the ministry:
I’ve struggled through the years with what I see as delays in entering ministry, but all along I can see how God has been seasoning and growing me in these areas of personal development. I know he will do the same for you as you take your journey into ministry.
ABOUT PHILIP: Philip Thompson is a husband and new father who serves as a lay teacher at Suber Road Baptist Church in Greer, SC. He holds a MA in Theological Studies from Liberty Baptist Theological Seminary and an MDiv from Columbia International University. Read more of what he writes at Delivered from Darkness.
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